Yeeei!! The holidays are here....Xmas break!! (Yes am excited that we are
starting our Xmas break today). Gosh! the years are really flying. Twas January
just the other day (one more year
down..sheiks!..this means one year plus older :-( .. is there a pause button
for this?..anyone?), Mmhhh...which has got me thinking., what have I
achieved this year? Mmhh..what have you achieved this year?
Anyhoo! am glad its this time of the year again, normally am not this
Ecstatic about it, but for some strange reasons am so happy!, may be it has to
do with the fact that am looking forward to next year (I have so many 'gifts' to unravel). Well
this year wasn't all that in the beginning..nothing to report, but towards the
end, things just fell into place and ended up being a fab! year after all.. and
I found the secret to it (now, I need you
full attention for this)...being positive!... not rocket science. I
know I have said this before, but seriously being positive with full of hope
really cuts it, its like the first step to achieving whatever.
Always remember 'its never that serious' (some wise words from...Mmh..ok, I
forgot the author.."Worry is like a rocking chair, it gives you something
to do but doesn't take you anywhere" so why not fill that 'worry' void by
being positive).
Have merry Xmas people...en off-course a new year filled with
Total Bliss!!
Tuesday 20 December 2011
Thursday 24 November 2011
Give love another life
How are you people!! Ok....Ok, I know I have been MIA for awhile now but am back!..So what have I been missing out on??. So much has happened and I have to agree, things are looking up, no complains. Was speaking to a friend of mine just the other day and she made me really think..She was telling me how she believes that different people possess different energy, you know, negative and positive energy which tends to rub off on you when you around them and also that if you possess a positive energy in the sense that you are positive about things, this is what you get back and with this realization you can be at peace and achieve so much, she really believes in this stuff..had me convinced. Simply put am loving my life right now.
Back to matters at hand. Do you believe that love can die? ...anyone?....Mmmmhh? Well in my opinion, I don't. Am thinking about about my fiancée, not judging from now I mean been together with him for close to six years now..., ok... not so long for many but at least long enough to maybe, I don't know.. run out of things to say to each other (surprisingly he is the only one I'd hang around and just chill in silence and not feel weird about it). Come to think of it, I really don't think love can just die..I agree the excitement and attention is what dies if you let it and what many tend to look for outside, you know..just cause you've been together for ten or so years doesn't mean that you don't need the same attention given the first time you met or the excitement of doing this or that together just cause he has you now (men I hope you are taking notes..aha! I think it goes both ways).
Anyhoo! in my view, the task here will be.. you know what?.. if you really do love them it shouldn't be a task, just give him/her the attention they deserve, every day make it an exciting experience (the little things matter the most), find excitement in them (you know.. want to do stuff with them) and most importantly growth, there has to be growth in any relationship..to me growth is like education, there is always something new and you can never reach a limit to it, which means you can never reach your love peak (make sure there is evident growth in your relationship). Just a thought..what makes people cheat or walk out of relationships? Its not cause their love dies? No!.. it boils down to this three main factors..seriously think about it!
With this few words to reflect on, I wish you a Happy day!!
Thursday 10 November 2011
Contentment
Truth be told I don think any human being would be content with what they have or need..there is always going to be something else they aching for or just something else they want . Nothing will ever be enough. 'Contentment' can it be misinterpreted to settling? Just the other day in a conversation with my fiancee, as an assurance to him after having a disagreement, I told him that am content with what we have. Somehow he interpreted this to mean that I was settling and he wasn't for that.
What I meant was that am satisfied to all my hearts desire and that I was very happy with us and wouldn't ask for anything else. Many of the times I have notice people when they reach their set of goals be it monetary or where they see themselves in their future, they don't sit back to appreciate their achievements, don't get me wrong am not saying don't set goals..I too have goals. All am saying or what I keep telling myself now and again, never to find myself frustrating over what I don't have or what I admire from the next person (frustrations will just weigh you down) but instead being content with what I have, not setting limits for myself..No! to me I interpret Content as being Happy with what I have..I still have goals but am happy with now!!
What I meant was that am satisfied to all my hearts desire and that I was very happy with us and wouldn't ask for anything else. Many of the times I have notice people when they reach their set of goals be it monetary or where they see themselves in their future, they don't sit back to appreciate their achievements, don't get me wrong am not saying don't set goals..I too have goals. All am saying or what I keep telling myself now and again, never to find myself frustrating over what I don't have or what I admire from the next person (frustrations will just weigh you down) but instead being content with what I have, not setting limits for myself..No! to me I interpret Content as being Happy with what I have..I still have goals but am happy with now!!
Monday 31 October 2011
Love
Ever truly think of how amazing this feeling is..am talking about LOVE, such a short word with so much weight; motherly love, love for your sibling or family for that matter better yet a stranger that you just met and came to love.., the unconditional love!.
Scary but this feeling of love can be so overwhelming sometimes that you can find yourself putting others before you (sacrifice). And surprisingly loving this person (the giving itself) is a better excuse to be happy or can also act as a strength, to give you the will to go on when facing hardship or wanting to succeed and aslo to easily forgive when they wrong you.
We truly are created in God's image, cause we got this gift first from him. The gift of love, he has proven his love for us more than once, first with the sacrifice of his only son (putting us before him), and forgiving us then and again when we turn away from him. I strongly believe the first step to being happy, is to be able to love and to love unconditionally. From my experience the giving itself/ loving someone is the most satisfying feeling and it gives me so much bliss.
So if you want to find your total bliss..., love is the first step!
Scary but this feeling of love can be so overwhelming sometimes that you can find yourself putting others before you (sacrifice). And surprisingly loving this person (the giving itself) is a better excuse to be happy or can also act as a strength, to give you the will to go on when facing hardship or wanting to succeed and aslo to easily forgive when they wrong you.
We truly are created in God's image, cause we got this gift first from him. The gift of love, he has proven his love for us more than once, first with the sacrifice of his only son (putting us before him), and forgiving us then and again when we turn away from him. I strongly believe the first step to being happy, is to be able to love and to love unconditionally. From my experience the giving itself/ loving someone is the most satisfying feeling and it gives me so much bliss.
So if you want to find your total bliss..., love is the first step!
Monday 24 October 2011
Happiness
Hi guys! Bella here. Am hoping we will be the best of pals from now on. I want you to also share your views on my blog. Looking forward to our new found friendship.
Ever wondered what really makes us happy..you could say, its being filthy rich so you could have everything at you disposal, or being loved unconditionally or.....,but why is it that we are never truly happy there is always something hanging to worry about, if its not this its that. I ache for that happiness cause I know what I truly want and my resolution from now on will be to work towards achieving that and I won't let anything or anyone stand in the way of my happiness!
I think happiness first starts with being true and loyal to oneself and most importantly loving oneself unconditionally, I mean! really loving & appreciating oneself no excuses. I for one make excuses about so many things & you know what enough!
Gosh! I need, I need that total bliss...need to feel like am on seventh heaven & I am going to get there cause from where am at, the only one standing in my way is me. I will find my utmost Happiness!.
Ever wondered what really makes us happy..you could say, its being filthy rich so you could have everything at you disposal, or being loved unconditionally or.....,but why is it that we are never truly happy there is always something hanging to worry about, if its not this its that. I ache for that happiness cause I know what I truly want and my resolution from now on will be to work towards achieving that and I won't let anything or anyone stand in the way of my happiness!
I think happiness first starts with being true and loyal to oneself and most importantly loving oneself unconditionally, I mean! really loving & appreciating oneself no excuses. I for one make excuses about so many things & you know what enough!
Gosh! I need, I need that total bliss...need to feel like am on seventh heaven & I am going to get there cause from where am at, the only one standing in my way is me. I will find my utmost Happiness!.
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