Give love another life

How are you people!! Ok....Ok, I know I have been MIA for awhile now but am back!..So what have I been missing out on??. So much has happened and I have to agree, things are looking up, no complains. Was speaking to a friend of mine just the other day and she made me really think..She was telling me how she believes that different people possess different energy, you know,  negative and positive energy which tends to rub off on you when you around them and also that if you possess a positive energy in the sense that you are positive about things, this is what you get back and with this realization you can be at peace and achieve so much,  she really believes in this stuff..had me convinced. Simply put am loving my life right now.

Back to matters at hand. Do you believe that love can die? ...anyone?....Mmmmhh? Well in my opinion, I don't. Am thinking about about my fiancée, not judging from now I mean been together with him for close to six years now..., ok... not so long for many but at least long enough to maybe, I don't know.. run out of things to say to each other (surprisingly he is the only one I'd hang around and just chill in silence and not feel weird about it). Come to think of it, I really don't think love can just die..I agree the excitement and attention is what dies if you let it and what many tend to look for outside, you know..just cause you've been together for ten or so years doesn't mean that you don't need the same attention given the first time you met or the excitement of doing this or that together just cause he has you now (men I hope you are taking notes..aha! I think it goes both ways).

Anyhoo! in my view, the task here will be.. you know what?.. if you really do love them it shouldn't be a task, just give him/her the attention they deserve, every day make it an exciting experience (the little things matter the most), find excitement in them (you know.. want to do stuff with them) and most importantly growth, there has to be growth in any relationship..to me growth is like education, there is always something new and you can never reach a limit to it, which means you can never reach your love peak (make sure there is evident growth in your relationship). Just a thought..what makes people cheat or walk out of relationships? Its not cause their love dies? No!.. it boils down to this three main factors..seriously think about it!

With this few words to reflect on, I wish you a Happy day!!

Contentment

Truth be told I don think any human being would be content with what they have or need..there is always going to be something else they aching for or just something else they want . Nothing will ever be enough. 'Contentment' can it be misinterpreted to settling? Just the other day in a conversation with my fiancee, as an assurance to him after having a disagreement, I told him that am content with what we have. Somehow he interpreted this to mean that I was settling and he wasn't for that.

What I meant was that am satisfied to all my hearts desire and that I was very happy with us and wouldn't ask for anything else. Many of the times I have notice people when they reach their set of goals be it monetary or where they see themselves in their future, they don't sit back to appreciate their achievements, don't get me wrong am not saying don't set goals..I too have goals. All am saying or what I keep telling myself now and again, never to find myself frustrating over what I don't have or what I admire from the next person (frustrations will just weigh you down) but instead being content with what I have, not setting limits for myself..No! to me I interpret Content as being Happy with what I have..I still have goals but am happy with now!!