Back to matters at hand. Do you believe that love can die? ...anyone?....Mmmmhh? Well in my opinion, I don't. Am thinking about about my fiancée, not judging from now I mean been together with him for close to six years now..., ok... not so long for many but at least long enough to maybe, I don't know.. run out of things to say to each other (surprisingly he is the only one I'd hang around and just chill in silence and not feel weird about it). Come to think of it, I really don't think love can just die..I agree the excitement and attention is what dies if you let it and what many tend to look for outside, you know..just cause you've been together for ten or so years doesn't mean that you don't need the same attention given the first time you met or the excitement of doing this or that together just cause he has you now (men I hope you are taking notes..aha! I think it goes both ways).
Anyhoo! in my view, the task here will be.. you know what?.. if you really do love them it shouldn't be a task, just give him/her the attention they deserve, every day make it an exciting experience (the little things matter the most), find excitement in them (you know.. want to do stuff with them) and most importantly growth, there has to be growth in any relationship..to me growth is like education, there is always something new and you can never reach a limit to it, which means you can never reach your love peak (make sure there is evident growth in your relationship). Just a thought..what makes people cheat or walk out of relationships? Its not cause their love dies? No!.. it boils down to this three main factors..seriously think about it!
With this few words to reflect on, I wish you a Happy day!!
Love dies just like everything else does. Love is a feeling, a mere infatuation. People love for a reason and when those reasons pale out,love fades away. For better or for worse....Yeah right! Very few people stick together when life proves a bitch, and for those who do, Id hate to think they do so in the name of love but rather because of an uncontrolled obsession.
ReplyDelete@Jamie (I know this is such debatable topic but just hear me out) Like you said 'it fades away' it doesn't die..This three main factors are what drowns the love i.e attention, excitement ad growth..look at it from my point of view you meet en fall for each other (genuinely not mere infatuation like you call it)..at first its exciting, the attention is there and off course there is growth (seeing yourself get to the next level) every thing is good (most call it honeymoon period). At first you maintain this until..I don't know, maybe you get disrupted or too comfortable cause you already have them and not make any effort to make it exciting or give them attention they deserve(am I making sense?)or also being in a stand still relationship where you feel you need more (there is no growth whatsoever). My argument is this three things are vital, they are what normally die in a relationship, if you let it anyway.
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